With that being said, let’s talk about narcissism. Narcissism is essentially an extreme form of self-love. It’s more than just a case of healthy self-esteem. It’s a case of thinking so highly of one’s self that it interferes with other personal relationships.
One aspect of narcissism that is particularly troubling is the need to feel like the expert on all subjects. It interferes in a person’s ability to analyze a problem properly, to take advice from someone who actually is an expert in the field, and to decide on a proper course of action. In this sense, narcissism can also cause a person to assign blame for a problem inappropriately.
This is one of the problems narcissism has caused for President Trump. Often, when addressing a serious problem, Trump must feel like the expert. In doing so, he interjects criticism that is unwarranted, and suggests courses of action that can be downright inane.
Retired Admiral William H. McRaven, who was the commander in charge of the Navy SEAL raid that executed Al Qaeda leader Osama bin Laden, has been critical of Trump, particularly over Trump’s willingness to use security clearances as a weapon against those who oppose him. When Trump revoked the security clearance of former CIA Director William Brennan, McRaven accused Trump of engaging in a McCarthy-like witch hunt.
McRaven continued his criticism of Trump over the weekend, this time focusing on Trump’s abusive relationship with the press. A prime example of that being when the White House revoked the press pass of CNN correspondent Jim Acosta, without giving Acosta warning or an opportunity to defend himself. It was a move that caused US District Judge Timothy Kelly, a Trump appointee, to issue injunctive relief to CNN and Acosta by ordering the reinstatement of the press pass. McRaven warned that Trump’s treatment of the press threatened the Constitution.
Because a narcissist can not tolerate criticism, Trump lashed out against McRaven. Aside from accusing McRaven of being a supporter of Hillary Clinton or Barrack Obama, Trump tweeted that the United States should have gotten bin Laden long before the Navy SEAL raid. Trump even noted that in one of his books, he criticized President Bill Clinton for not addressing Osama bin Laden during Clinton’s term, when Sudan allegedly offered custody of bin Laden to the United States.
But Trump is no expert in military tactics or anti-terrorism. Trump never served in the US military. He has never been involved in planning a military operation. When he attended a private military academy, he was criticized for the self-centered way in which he treated the cadets under his leadership. Indeed, Trump has yet even to visit American troops since becoming Commander-in-Chief. He has no knowledge or experience to formulate intelligent criticism of the timing or implementation of the military raid that led to bin Laden’s death.
About one week earlier, Trump similarly felt the need to weigh in on an important subject of which he had no knowledge. In now infamous tweets occurring on November 10th and 11th, Trump blamed the destructive fires in California on gross forestry mismanagement. It was a move that drew criticism from firefighters and California’s leaders alike. Specifically, the heads of firefighting unions and associations chastised the President for being insensitive to the feelings of the firefighters on the ground and the people who had lost their homes.
Yet, Trump continued with his theme of forestry mismanagement when he visited California over the weekend. Trump claimed that he had spoken with Finland’s President, Sauli Niinisto, about Finland’s national forest. Specifically, Trump recalled speaking to Niinisto about how the Fins regularly rake the forest floor as an effective means of fire prevention. Niinisto, however, replied by publicly stating that he had no recollection of ever talking to Trump about raking.
Once again, due to his narcissistic leanings, Trump felt the need to be perceived as an expert. He needed to show that he knew better than the people on the ground handling the situation.
This narcissistic need to be the expert creates practical problems for Trump, his Administration and the country as a whole. First, it makes Trump less willing to seek and follow the advice of people who have more knowledge than he does on a specific subject. Why listen to climate change experts, for example, when raking can just solve the problem. Second, it demoralizes the very people the country needs to address complex problems. The Navy SEALS who raised bin Laden’s headquarters have a reason to be proud that their work as they very likely saved lives by preventing future terrorist attacks. They do not need to hear the current Commander-in-Chief chiming in on his displeasure of the timing of the action years after bin Laden has been dead. Likewise, firefighters do not need to hear their President’s criticism of the cause and extent of the fires, when Trump has no training or experience in firefighting or forest management. Finally, by pretending to be an expert, and assigning blame without a true understanding of the situation, Trump could make inadvisable personnel decisions, firing those who are true experts in favor of those who accept Trump’s personal assessment without question. This can only lead to poor policy choices.
A true leader understands that he or she is not an expert in everything. He or she understands the importance of getting advice from people with the appropriate training, knowledge and experience. Decisions based on a narcissistic need to feel like the expert do not serve the country well.
By: William J. Kovatch, Jr.